I hope you already know how much we appreciate your dedication to this project
Personally, I wouldn't even care so much if I could put OLE objects on a form through the IDE or not. The main issue I have with them is that they are a tad more complicated to work with in the code than other environments I work with. Of course, what it really boils down to is that I'm just lazy
Rather than having extended OLE functionality in the PIDE, I'd like to see the ability to respond to events (unless that's already there and I missed it, which is entirely possible with me).