But the point of church is to have religious fellowship, friends that believe the same thing you do. It IS a social gathering, but one that allows everyone with similar views to get together and learn more.
Church is the religious form of school. Some go to school to learn, others go because they have friends, others go to impress the teacher. replace "school" with "church" in that last sentence and you've got the same deal.
Religious people bleat out things like that because it means absolutely all for the people that say them. To understand each other you have to go half way. Jesus rising from the dead means that we get to also, it means we get to live forever in Heaven and be friends with God.
To others you simply don't even believe that it happened or simply don't care because you're worldly people. Religous people are spiritual, concerned with their soul, secular (sans the negative connotation) people are concerned with bettering their life.
The point of bleating it again and again isn't to try to be truer-followers. The point is to try and reach someone. The clique isn't exclusive.
Some just go about 'recruiting' in a very poor fashion.
Kids, yup. They're easy to distort. A lot of preachers are all about how bad people are and how we're all going to hell. But hey, they're there. They're wrong, too. I know I'm going to Heaven, not because I'm good but because of that often bleated phrase.
It's very possible to be "closer" to God than others. But it's a one sided thing. We can learn more about God and get closer to Him, but God is trying to get close to everyone. But this is all just babel, isn't it?
Blind faith is about believing without the need for proof, not inspite of proof.
A lot of hymns are really stupid. Two weeks ago it was like being a part of a very poor version of the Phantom of the Opera

It's not a question about being a good person or not. It's about going to Heaven, that's all. Heaven isn't the place where all the good people in the world go. Moses, Abraham, Noah, Adam, all of those Old Testament people and prophets are in Shoel (Hell) right now waiting for Jesus to come again for the Final Judgement so they can finally get into Heaven. The Ten Commandments weren't commandments made for punishmenet. Before Jesus, following the commandments was the way to get into Heaven. But no one could follow them so God intervened and made it super easy. Forgive and be forgiven. You were saying how God doesn't do anything with His omnipotence? Well He did.
God DID make the decision as to how we live out eternity, through Jesus. You're still thinking worldly, can you please meet me half way on this for a moment?
Earth is the "proving ground" if you will. This is where we get to choose what we do, how we do it, any why. This is where we have free will to do whatever we want to. Some praise God with their free will, some make millions of dollars, some act good for the good of being good, others decide to do things the "easy" way and steal and kill. God gave us free will on Earth because without free will then there is no point to anything. Do you see that? If God controlled everything then why do we have brains? It would be like a girl playing with her dolls, the girl dictates what those dolls do. God didn't want to be the puppet master. The girl gets bored of those dolls after not too long, right? Chance it a lot more interesting.
But also, (remember, meet me half way) this world isn't the end. Worldly people keep wanting a better life on Earth, wars to be stopped, people to not go hungry, which is GREAT. I wish those things never happened. But this Earth isn't what's MOST important. Our souls, our lives in Heaven, are what is MOST important. (are you trying to meet me half way?

I can't help you understand unless you come to the middle ground. I'm trying. Please, I just want you to ATLEAST understand so you're not so offended.