WTF are you talking about? (in other worse, you have a long way to go;) Like I was always a natural at doing this shit.. dating women is a skill set just like anything else. I didn't just sit in front of a piano and know how to play, I had to learn/figure it out.
I used to be the most sensitive, lamest, intellectual, watched too many Disney movies, geek... But I just wanted to 'be myself'
btw, 'typical dude and being dominate and in control is natural for you'.. is NOT the typical male.. the typical male is a total wuss with women, take a look around.
And the whole 'being yourself' is an interesting thing. Have you ever bought women gifts, taken them out to dinner, showered them with compliments, etc? I'm sure you have (or have wanted to.. but still havent had the chance), I used to.. I thought thats what you were supposed to do.
But all you're really doing there is trying to win over their affection, and you're definitely NOT being yourself when you do that shit.. I guarantee you didnt do any of that to become friends with any of your guy pals.
I am keeping it real.. I treat everyone the same.
But I didn't want to get into that. Just stick to what I said in that case, Zero Tolerance for Bullshit.