We start out in kindergarden at age 4, then grades 1-5 are elementary school. At grade 6 you're 11, and through grade 8 is middle school. Grades 9-12 are high school, that's 14-18 years old. After that is college! (hopefully)
And I know, man, at least 20+ people on Ritalin, you can get high if you snort it (which most do...). Doctors actually give out free samples, lol.
So did you cry Sandmann

? I don't see the point in crying over a lost person, I mean, yeah, maybe when they first die, but not years afterward. As Dr. Phil says, "do you think they want you to ruin your life because of their death?".