Verizon.net DSL and Web Server conneciton question.

I know this may be the wrong place for this so flame me if that is that case I can take it, but... I have a barricade SMC router (I know sux but for remote access to work, I HAVE to use it) and verizon.net DSL. I can't get a connection to my web server. Anyone else try to do this with any success. I have my suspission that verizon is blocking certian kind of packets, and that would be why I am getting conneciton refused. So I was wondering if anyone else is haveing the same issue and maybe resolved it?